Does Penis Size Matter

The Truth About Penis Size

Penis size does matter!

It matter's to one person : YOU!

If you believe that you have a small penis, it may matter very much to you, however unimportant the issue might seem to other men, women, doctor's, experts etc. Surveys and studies can say what they want about what men and women prefer but if you are unhappy about your penis size, then penis size does matter. This is nicely illustrated by a young university student's view on the size of his penis : 

"It's not the fact that I am ugly and repulsive- well I don't think I am, at least I've never been told I am.  The fact is that I lack serious confidence, now that I have been told before.  I lacked faith in myself and in my ability to perform. I am 5'10" tall - which isn't extremely tall or small, just average.  But I was never satisfied with my penis size.  However I looked at it, I just simply wasn't satisfied with it- I would go as far as to say I was really embarrassed."

Telling men that penis size does not matter, is like telling a champion body builder that he need not get bigger biceps.  The fact that he is already the champion, that most women do not find the body building type attractive and that "average is good", has nothing to do with the desire to gain bigger biceps.

It boils down to a self perception and self confidence issue.  If you feel overweight, no reassurance from your partner will convince you otherwise.  It is based on your "feelings" which in turn is based upon self perception and self acceptance.

True that for most woman penis size does not matter because most woman can only accommodate the average penis size anyway. The fact is women vary in size, too.  Some have longer vaginas, some shorter.  So if you pride yourself on your exceptional length, but the women in your life is shorter than average, you might be missing the spot.

We appreciate the fact that women want to save our fragile male ego's because in their eyes penis size REALLY does not matter (their preferences are usually a blend of taste, aesthetics, habit, comfort, pressure and pleasure) but for some men it is important to have a larger penis and it does matter.

Just as you would keep reassuring your better halve that she is "not fat" and that her big hips REALLY do not matter, no amount of "convincing" from your part can make her think otherwise because "losing weight" is important to her and the way she perceives herself.

What is important to note here is that most men will have a penis that falls within the suggested normal size range, but that does not always make them feel normal or better about themselves. Both they, and their doctor, should recognize that this is primarily a psychological problem, connected to physical and sexual self-image, rather than a physical handicap.

This is why I get upset by people who try and dismiss the notion that penis size does not matter, it does; it matter's to you! 

Read more about penis enlargement and decide if you want to take action on it.  Or recognize the fact that your "perception" is based upon a set of beliefs that may not necessarily be true and rather work on your self confidence levels.

For a complete discussion on penis enlargement and ways to obtain a bigger penis size click here.